The Key to Success

Happy Monday!

Question: have you set up health and fitness goals for 2014? Are you totally ready to go all in and give all you have to reach these goals?

More than most likely you have answered YES! However, it’s only the first full week and statistically many health and fitness resolutions fail by Valentine’s Day….but you’re not going to be a statistic this year.

So, why do they fail? Lack of preparation can be one answer. Lack of planning or goals that are a bit too lofty can be answers as well. I think it goes deeper though. Many of us have already done the prep work. We’ve thrown out the Christmas candy, set up our workout space or purchased a gym membership, and even begun researching meal plans (which is probably what lead you here). Can I be honest though? All of that is the easy part. I can get clients to throw the junk out and start moving…the tricky thing is to keep junk from coming back and to keep moving.

So what’s the trick? HABIT.

I receive emails all the time from people who have the equipment. They have new shoes, a treadmill, P90X, weights, shakes, etc., but they don’t know how to stick with a program. That’s part of the bigger picture: stick with the program :)

In all honesty, even I have a hard time sticking to DVD programs, which is why I will often mix them (follow me on Twitter to get a better feel for my personal workouts). The biggest thing you can do to help yourself reach your goals is to figure out what works for you. We all have different motivators, which will help us develop habits. These motivators are wide in variety and change from person to person as well as different times in our lives. Take a look at just a few of the motivators that have played a role in my own success:

  1. Health. My mom died when I was young and I was well on my way down the same path at 22 years old. A kind-hearted but stern radiologist told me to change my lifestyle or face the consequences.
  2. Kids. I want to set an example for my children. Not only do I want them to see that taking care of your health is important, but fitness requires a commitment to change that many fail to exhibit now.
  3. My husband. I won’t lie on this, I want to look hot for my honey :) . I like when he’s proud of my hard work and when he wants to show me off. He is my biggest fan and supporter.
  4. To be a good steward. Just like the money I have been entrusted with, I have also been entrusted with this body. It is my right and honor to take care of it, grow it, challenge it and use it as it is to be used.
  5. To be my own hero. I enjoy not having to wait for people to help me with mundane tasks like moving a few pieces of furniture or grabbing a huge bag of dog food. I still believe in chivalry and enjoy the doors being open, but it feels good to also know I can kick it down if needed.

There are LOADS of other motivators that have come up in my fit life. Often times I will enter online contests or run challenges to keep me going. The fact is that you have to create a habit in order for it to stick as a lifestyle. You don’t create habits in 2 days or 2 weeks people! It takes a minimum of 40 days for something to become a habit.

Simply eradicating a poor choice (like too much sugar) but never replacing it with something healthier doesn’t work either. One of the most popular things I see happen this time of year is that people will “give up” sugar (including candy and sodas) for the month. The problem is that they usually only give it up for a month. Once February hits they are right back on the train, often times eating MORE in order to make up for the deprivation.

So how can you avoid the pain of goals-never-met? A few simple steps will get you started:

  • Set achievable goals and share them with somebody who can help you make sure they can be reached (I am available by email).
  • Set a time to reach them.
  • Set up healthy habits over the next 40 days. Don’t go clean slate and cold turkey here…set up 1 nutrition and one exercise habit to conquer over the next 40 days. Example: workout 3x per week and stay away from sugary foods and beverages.
  • Develop a program that works. Write your goals down and place them EVERYWHERE, set the timer on your phone for workouts, or enlist an accountability partner. Make these 2 things NON-NEGOTIABLE.
  • Stick to it. If you don’t see results in 3 days (you know who you are!) or you get tired or just don’t feel like it, SUCK IT UP! Do it. Don’t wait for somebody to come give you the half-time pep talk OK? Be your own motivator and find your own success.

Set your footing right with these tips and you WILL see results. Stay with it and fight for it. Rome wasn’t built in a day…

Michelle

Rockstar Training

 

Looking back to the past and forward to the future…

 

Happy Monday!

Today marks the FINAL Monday of 2013, and what a year it has been. :)

I have recently become OBSESSED with the Flipagram app and highly recommend it if you’re wanting to see your recent year in pictures. Upon my discovery of this app, I found myself becoming quite teary eyed over what had actually happened in 2013. I think we can all fall prey to thinking too much about the future and forget about what has been accomplished in the past 365 days. I would like to take a moment to encourage you to take a look back at your own 365 before we engage in the next round of adventures :)

MY 365:

Can I just take a moment to say WOWZA!?!?!? OK, so much has happened this year, but it must be shared in short hand.

In January I made my very first overseas trip to Chisinau, Moldova and managed to leave a part of my heart there. I was fortunate enough to let go of my need for control long enough to make some lifelong friendships and I will be forever grateful for the opportunity. I am also looking forward to more trips there.

Moldova 4

February marked my 35th birthday, and may I be honest here? ALL the things you read about your body changing, holding on to fat, harder to lean out, etc.? Seemingly true for me :) However, a change in training can yield results.

In May, I celebrated my 15th wedding anniversary to the first and only guy I ever fell in love with…altogether now: AAAAAWWWWWE.

July saw another trip overseas. This time I was fortunate to be accompanied by my oldest and the trip was to the BEAUTIFUL and majestic Ethiopia. It was a trip I will never forget as I saw what true joy looks like, even in the midst of poverty. I met friends whom I will never forget and I was able to see my boy become a man.

Ethiopia with girl

I had a short hitch to my plans by October, but have learned that there are times when we may have the best laid plans, but there are far better times for these plans to come to fruition.

I have seen many days and many challenges in the gym here at home, and have set up my goals and desires for the coming of 2014. One thing I will change is instead of making “Goal Sheets” or “Vision Boards” I am going to make ADVENTURES. See, the thing about adventures is that they leave some wiggle room for life. Life is, after all, a series of adventures. Our lives can be a series of our own adventures OR it can be the planning, waiting and watching of others. I for one intent for 2014 to be FULL of great adventures!

Here’s a sneak peek into my adventures for 2014:

  1. MORE TRIPS! Yep, I hope to leave this country a couple of more times before the year is through and I plan to take more family with me.
  2. FIGURE COMPETITION. Yep, I’ve been toeing the line on competitions forĀ  a couple of years now. Upon a little bit of self-reflection I have realized THIS is the year it’s happening! I need to get out of my comfort zone and be pushed to the max…or I fear I will regret it.
  3. HIRING A COACH. Due to the aforementioned competing, I will be hiring a figure coach. WHY? My specialties are weight loss, corrective exercise and MMA. I need somebody to hold me accountable to my goals and help with posing and all too :) My first interview with a potential figure coach is today!
  4. NEW BUSINESS! I know I’ve made mention of it, but I am starting a brand new business to introduce a new way of thinking that will help in weight loss for ALL levels. We had originally intended to launch this week, but I felt that the time wasn’t enough to put out quality information. So, we will be launching in March, just in time to recommit to a healthy way to reach your weight loss and fitness goals for 2014…cause by then you’ll be tired of starving;)
  5. I want to take a BIG family adventure by the end of the year. You know, one of those crazy cool family vacations you see people ? Yep, that will be us this year.

Those are my top 5 adventures for 2014.

What adventures do YOU have in store? And how will next year look different from this year?

Until 2014, PEACE, LOVE, and PLENTY of LUNGES!

Michelle C

*Disclaimer Note: Video made by Flipagram (FREE app, go get it). Song, CHAINSAW by Family Force 5. Download legally, don’t be a butthead.