How To Find Motivation When There Is No Finish Line

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Eyes on the prize.

You wanted the extra TWO days of vacation more than you wanted the double fudge brownie. You needed to win the office Biggest Loser challenge more than you needed to go to happy hour with the girls. You baked extra chicken breasts on the weekend, walked on the treadmill while you caught up on Scandal and said no to your husband’s offer for dinner out on Valentine’s Day because SOMEONE (grrr) decided the office weigh-in should be February 15.

You persevered and you did it! You won!

With that extra time banked for a much need family camping trip this summer, you breathe a sigh of relief and enjoy a salted caramel truffle from the heart shaped box your husband surprised you with. (He’s not very good at following instructions.)

Tuesday arrives and you drive right past the gym on the way home. You know you should keep up with your routine but you need to catch up on the laundry. When you get home the last of the chicken is gone, everyone is hungry and no one wants to cook. How about pizza?

The slippery post challenge slop has begun…

The thrill of a big goal is often a POWERFUL motivator but even the most determined competitor takes time off. How do you stay true to your healthy habits when the pressure is off and there isn’t a prize on the line?

Motivation is overrated. It’s all about staying COMMITTED.

That’s the real secret to a healthy and happy fit life.  Challenges, competitions and races can be a part of what keeps you committed as long as you go about it with three very important things in mind.

Connect to your big picture goal.

Whatever kind of competition you choose to participate in you have to connect it with something that lasts longer than 30 days (or however long the program lasts). Take a step back and figure out what the ultimate goal is. Create your Fitness Vision – a picture of your ideal self in five years. Paint a vivid picture of your life, what you’re doing and how you feel. Then make it concrete by writing it down, creating a vision board or drawing a picture.  Use your fitness vision as a guide to create healthier habits that you can sustain as well as help you hit the mark for the short-term goals you’ve set. If you see yourself running a marathon you need to make sure your training plan not only builds your base but also helps keep you running injury free long term.  Starving yourself to win a pot of money in a four-week weight loss challenge won’t help you keep muscle you might want to hike the Inca Trail.

It’s not always about winning.

 Entering a contest or challenge doesn’t always have to be about the big prize. It can be about getting inspired by a group of other women pursuing a common goal. If new workouts and meal plans or coaching support is being provided take it and learn all you can! Use these tools to examine what you’ve been doing and figure out what “healthy habits” might actually be holding you back.  For example, fruit is great but you can overeat anything.  A new plan might make you shift to more vegetables with less fruit. It’s a simple and sustainable change but one that can reap positive benefits on your physique and health numbers.

Don’t swing to far one way or the other.

If you are super competitive and the WIN is what gets you going, be careful not to set yourself up for future failure by going to the extreme. The boomerang effect is a powerful one. You may want to skip the wine after dinner a few weeks before the big finale but cutting out EVERYTHING that makes you happy will only make you crave it more. Pick one thing you love and have a bit of it without guilt. You can find many ways to get your chocolate/salt/pasta craving without going overboard. I love a good protein mug cake to get my chocolate fix without a sugar crash and burn. However, that doesn’t mean I won’t occasionally have piece of dark chocolate with my tea too. I don’t have it every night but I also have never made it completely off limits, even when I am trying to lean out for a photo shoot.

If these tips aren’t enough to help you stay committed, maybe you need a full time coach. Better yet, maybe you need the tools to help you become your own coach. I invite you to take a look at my new book, Motivation Is Made Not Found, to find more tips like these to help you make your own motivation whenever you need it. It’s a collection of my best essays on motivation and a blue print to help create your motivation daily and stay committed. It’s on sale till February 29 so don’t wait till the next office wellness challenge to check it out!

If you are ready for the next competition or challenge, I am pretty sure Michelle has an idea or two. ;)

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About Pamela:

Pamela and I met at Idea World many moons ago and connected view our shared introvert habits. She has been a blessing and joy to my life, adding value every time we speak. She keeps a wonderful blog: www.thrivepersonalfitness.com filled with up to the minute tips about real health and fitness. She has a passion to help other women realize their true potential and love their bodies by harnessing the power of fitness and nutrition.

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The Motivation Monday Blues

Have you dealt with waning motivation?

If you said NO, then you may have a problem with lying and that is for another day ;)

Motivation is the key topic of many posts, pictures, plans, articles, Instagram accounts (yes, entire accounts) and even YouTube videos.

Why?

Because we all feel this NEED to be motivated.

The interesting thing is that we are not all motivated by the same thing, so the magic formula for motivation is non-existent.

Sometimes, we may truly need a break from the normal activities of daily life. Other times, we may be over worked or over stressed. Illness can douse our motivation as well.

There is a whole world of things that motivate us and an equally large world of things that can seemingly zap our motivation in the blink of an eye.

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I will confess that my own personal motivation has been at a low 4 for a while now.

I’m dealing with a body that has seemingly betrayed me, so my go-to of sweating it out just won’t do right now.

Valentine’s Day was spent recovering from a stomach bug that was brought on by what appeared to be depression (I use exercise to combat depression and it’s been slow going for the last several weeks), and I spent the entire day doing NOTHING but binge watching Netflix and throwing in one movie (one of the Hobbits as my daughter has decided she is totally Team Kili…..ah, young love). Please note: sitting and doing NOTHING does not make for more motivation.

So, how do you bust through a period of low motivation?

Here are a few tried and true tips that have always worked for me, but rest assured I am also calling in an expert to post this week as well ;)

  1. Get outside. Now, I know some of you may be weathering the cold, but down here…well, I can get outside anytime at all. Research shows that even a short walk in the sunshine can help vitamin D production, which makes you a happier person to be around.
  2. Watch your diet. When I’m feeling down I tend to want to eat junk. Heavy foods or sugary fare become the norm and seem to perpetuate the sluggish state of mind. So, load up on fresh fruits and vegetables to give your cells a quick pick me up.
  3. Stop the deprivation. The term DIET above referred to your food intake in general. Now, if you are partaking in a deprivation or hard ruled diet right now, you are setting yourself up for motivational fatigue. Ditch the fad diets and eat for energy.
  4. Switch up your routine. Try something new. Go to a new fitness class at your gym OR try a different gym altogether. A fresh atmosphere can generate some newfound mojo.
  5. Check your basics. Are you getting enough water, calories, movement, sleep, social outings, etc? We need to make sure our basics are covered before we can shovel on the load of life. So take a step back and re-evaluate.
  6. Watch your drinking habits. I, as you know, love coffee and wine; however, these 2 things can cause a lag in hormone production which will in turn cause a lag in motivation. Try to cut back at least and maybe cut out at most (I’m going a month with zero wine to help reset everything) to give your hormones a fighting chance.
  7. Talk it out. If you have a therapist, go. If you don’t, then find a friend. Get the stuff in the basement taken care of so you can start looking at life with a fresh perspective.

Remember, motivation can be a fickle friend, so depend on creating HABIT to help you reach your goals.

To your good health,

Michelle